A Balanced Philosophy of Life

October 21, 2011

“In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: surely God has appointed the one as well as the other…”        (Ecclesiastes 7:14)

When Rick Warren was asked on a talk show how he could explain his wife’s cancer, he responded that he once thought life was a series of mountaintops and valleys, but his experience of life has brought him to the place where he now uses a different metaphor.  He is now convinced that life is like a railroad track. The left rail represents this hard reality: there are always adversities in our life because God is more interested in our character than He is in our comfort.  The right rail represents the glorious reality that something good is always happening in our life because God is good and He shows us that by the good things He’s consistently doing in our life.

The wisest man who ever lived wrote that when we are experiencing prosperity we should not feel guilty.  We should rejoice!  But when we experience adversity we should realize that God has appointed them both.  To test the philosophy of Rick Warren, think of a scale like the scale of justice.  Imagine placing all your problems on the left side of that scale.  Then imagine placing all your blessings on the right side of that scale.  Don’t be surprised if the scales at least balance, or that the blessings on the right side of the scale far outweigh the problems on the other side.

When problems happen, ask yourself what part of your character God is building in your life through those problems.  Then ask God how you can receive the grace to glorify Him through the way you respond to those problems.


Who Are You?

October 19, 2011

“…  Who are you? What do you say about yourself?”  (John 1:22)

 John the Baptist was the greatest man and the greatest prophet ever born of woman according to Jesus, yet there’s very little space given to him in the Gospels.  His greatness as a man and as a prophet seems to be attributed to the way he answered this question a delegation from Jerusalem was commissioned to ask him.

At first he did not want to answer the question because he did not want to talk about himself.  He just wanted to talk about Jesus Christ.  But when they told him they had to take an answer back to Jerusalem, he finally gave the answer that he was a voice crying in the wilderness to prepare the way of the Lord.  That was who he was, that was what he was, and that was where he was.

We might summarize John’s answer by saying that he accepted the limits of his limitations and the responsibility for his ability.  We bear a lot of needless pain because we do not accept the limits of our limitations.  But at the judgment most of us are not going to come up short because we did not accept our limits.  We will fall short because we did not accept the responsibility for our ability.

Therefore, we should have a realistic, objective evaluation of who we are, what we are, and where we are to be as we live out our three score and ten, or four score years of life in this world.  Who are you?  What do you say about yourself?  When you meet the Lord, are you going to be able to say that you were who, what, and where He willed you to be?


A Communication Flap

October 14, 2011

“We have spoken freely to you Corinthians and opened wide our hearts to you… As a fair exchange – I speak as to my children – open wide your hearts also.” (2 Corinthians 6: 11, 13)

Life so often comes down to relationships and relationships are all about communication. The Apostle Paul profiled that reality when he wrote these words.  He also prescribed a solution.  As a summary paraphrase of this passage, Paul is suggesting that each of us has a communication “flap” on our heart.  As a married couple we should be face to face and heart to heart with our communication flaps open.  But, the hard reality is that we are often back to back with our communication flaps closed tight.  The solution Paul models here is that someone must take the initiative and say “I am heart to heart with you and my flap is open.  Be heart to heart with me and open your communication flap.”

Communication in relationships is a problem and a challenge we can face all day long every day in our family, work life and our interaction with people.  It’s so very important to realize that someone has to initiate a solution by saying, in spirit and in principle, to the person with whom they are having a communication conflict: “I am heart to heart with you and my communication flap is open.  Be heart to heart with me and open your communication flap.”

You may be totally amazed at how taking this stance can melt down the obstacles between you and a difficult person. Throughout any given day we face  relational challenges that can be turned around through good and loving communication.  God has to begin with the person who is mature enough to initiate the solution Paul is modeling for us.


A Two Dimensional Life

October 11, 2011

“For we know that if our earthly house, this tent, is destroyed, we have a building from God …  eternal in the heavens.” (2 Corinthians 5:1)

A dragonfly is a marvel of aerodynamics with its two sets of wings that enable it to hover like a helicopter.  The dragonfly actually spends the first one to four years of its existence at the bottom of a body of water.  This underwater creature is equipped with two respiratory systems.  It has a respiratory system that enables it to inhale water through its long narrow body and derive oxygen from the water, as many underwater creatures do.  It also has a second respiratory system that will one day equip it to breathe air when it enters into its second dimension of life.

When the underwater, first existence of the dragonfly has been fulfilled, it rises to the surface of the water, climbs up on the land, dries its wings in the sun, spreads those two magnificent sets of wings and gloriously begins the second dimension of its existence.

The dragonfly is obviously designed by God to live out its existence in two dimensions. We have that in common with the dragonfly.  According to Paul, we, also, were designed by God to exist in two dimensions. God issues us an earthly body to live out our life here on earth, and God is going to issue us a heavenly body that will equip us to live forever in the second, eternal dimension of our providentially planned existence in heaven.

This is why Paul writes those profoundly devotional verses in chapter 4 of 2 Corinthians telling us that we should welcome, accept and embrace anything that grows our eternal inward man, preparing it for heaven.

 


The Outward Man and the Inward Man

October 8, 2011

“Even though our outward man is perishing, yet the inward man is being renewed day by day.”  (2 Corinthians 4:16)

Some of the most profound devotional thoughts ever written are found in Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians.  For example, he writes of the outward man and the inward man.  He declares the value that the inward man is a greater value than the outward man because the outward man is temporal, but the inward man is eternal.  He labels the outward man a little clay pot, a perishable container, a common earthenware jar, and a tent that is folded up when we die.

When he writes these verses, Paul gives great consolation to those of us who are older and to those who are suffering the ravages of illness. Old age is not for wimps.  Neither is a long debilitating illness like being a bed fast quadriplegic for decades. However, by personal experience, I can resonate fully with what Paul has written here.  I have learned to be grateful for anything God directs or permits in my life that grows my eternal inward man, which is a greater value than my temporal outward man.

C. S. Lewis believed that “The clergy are those particular people within the whole church who have been especially trained and set aside to look after what concerns us as creatures who are going to live forever.  Life was not meant for pleasure only, nor for ease, but for discipline. Not for temporal, but for eternal values.  Not for the satisfying of a life here on earth, but for the development of a life for heaven.”

Hold in perspective the reality that God is continuously shaping us down here so we will fit in up there.

 


His Strength in Our Weakness

October 4, 2011

“…  When I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12:10)

Paul opens a small biographical window into his life when he tells us about what he calls his “thorn in the flesh.” He explains that he had so many supernatural experiences that to keep him humble, God permitted him to have this “thorn.” Paul asked God three specific times to take it away.  Even though he had an extraordinary ministry that brought healing to many, three times God’s response was essentially “No!  But My grace will be with you and that is all you need to cope with the challenge of your thorn.”

Although we’re not certain what this “thorn” was he wrote to the Galatians that when he first visited them his eyes were so hideous to look at it made them want to vomit.  He reminded them that they said if they could have, they would have taken the eyes out of their heads and placed them in his. The book of Acts reports that at the same time his physician Dr. Luke joined him so he could treat him. This “thorn” was accompanied with severe chronic fatigue.  He mentions weakness so much in his writings we know that every day of his extraordinary ministry Paul had to cope with this extreme chronic fatigue.

Paul explains that his physical weakness was a showcase in which God could exhibit His Own supernatural strength.  In the Living Bible Paraphrase of this chapter God tells Paul, “My strength looks good on weak people …” And Paul confesses, “The less I have the more I depend on Him.” All of this is summarized in these words: “…  When I am weak, then I am strong.”

Will you let your weakness showcase God’s strength and grace today?