A Two-Way Street

“For if I make you sorrowful then who is he who makes me glad but the one who is made sorrowful by me?” (2Corinthians 2: 2)

In this verse the Apostle Paul is telling us that relationships are a two-way street.  Whatever we send down that street comes back up that street.  Paul could have learned this from Jesus when he spent three years with Him in the desert of Arabia (Galatians 1: 15-20).

Jesus taught this same truth when He used a marketplace metaphor.  In the marketplace if another vendor bought produce from you and you suspected his bushel measurement was inaccurate, you could ask him to go get his bushel measurement when you sold to him.  In this way Jesus was teaching that whatever measure we use in giving to people they will use that same standard in giving back to us (Matthew 7 1-5).

By application, Paul and Jesus were teaching that in our marriage and family if we make people unhappy we will find ourselves living with unhappy people who were made unhappy by us.  I knew a wise pastor who did a lot of marriage counseling.  He wrote a little poem that had this line in it: “You can’t control the weather or rainy days but you can control the emotional climate that surrounds you.”

If you can surround yourself with unhappy people because you make them unhappy consider how much better it would be if you made those same people happy.  Another wise pastor said that with Jesus the main things are the plain things and the plain things are the main things.

The bottom line is do we want to be surrounded by happy or unhappy people?  What are we sending down the two-way street of our relationships?

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