“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” (Matthew 7: 3-5 NIV)
Jesus had a great sense of humor; I have long imagined He spoke these words with a smile on His face. They are, however, very wise and profound words. The way we perceive other people has everything to do with our relationships with them.
The story is told of two psychiatrists who rode the same subway every day to their office building. Every morning one got off the elevator at the sixth floor and the other at the tenth floor. One morning before the sixth floor psychiatrist got off the elevator he spit in the face of the other psychiatrist. This happened every morning that week. On Friday the elevator operator asked the tenth floor psychiatrist, “Aren’t you going to do something about this?” He responded, “That’s not my problem. That’s his problem. He has a problem. He spits on people. But that’s not my problem. He needs to get his head read.”
Very few of us are that secure. But if we were we would know that it takes a strong person to not retaliate. If we have a wholesome and positive evaluation of ourselves, and others with whom we have relationships, we would not play games like specks and planks.